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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi,I have question about something in relationship ,trust and marriage.I had shown my wife a orange spanish fly liquid coupled with kamasutra gel after few weeks of marriage.more to show as trust builder since before marriage we had some unsaid perpections.as a person i am very open and clear minded.thus went ahead and showed what i had.she asked me question ,why did i have it before marriage.since i didnt lie to her.so told her i bought it out of curiosty and now i am sharing it with you.she went on saying its something which couples buy toghther and its drug etc.i have hard time because it was more of trust and fantasy and i didnt know which route she tooktell me please ,was i wrong somwhere,was its something so wrong ,i shouldnt have had it.its something like condom.
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reader, fishdish  +, writes (20 February 2010):
 try to explain to her it's not a trust issue but you thought it would spice things up and you wanted to show your romantic/sexy side by surprising her with it and didn't mean anything by your getting it without her. she doesn't sound like she believes you to be faithful..but as a wife she should try to trust in her partner that he is doing the right thing in the marriage..
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