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writes:if girls dont approach you in clubs does that mean youre unattractive to them? do girls normally approach guys or do they wait for the guy to make the first move? and does anyone ever notice that alot of guys you see in clubs that end up with gorgeous girls arent really that good looking? its really confusing me so id love advice and opinions!!! thanks : ) Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2010): Confidence and easyygoingness is key.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2010): Sometimes girls are afraid to talk to the cute guys because we assume that he either already has a girl or that he would reject us. Sometimes that means that we go for the less attractive guy because he's a sure thing. It sucks, but it's true.
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reader, Stayc63088  +, writes (21 February 2010):
 Well when I went to clubs I would never approach a cute guy. My friends and I would discuss how cute he was though. Usually, with my group anyway, the guy always made the first move. And drunk girls will talk to whoever because they are drunk. The reason unattractive guys get gorgeous girls- confidence. Everyone basically just has a good time. So go up to a girl you think is cute and start dancing, nothing crazy. Then you look confident and attractive and I'm sure she will dance with you :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2010): Girls aren't as forward as boys and they wait on the boys to make the first move.. On the other side some types of girls make walk up to the boy first just depending... It doesn't matter what you look like ... Why don't you try approching a girl first the next time your out and see how it goes from there
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2010): In clubs, girls like to walk around to see if they can catch a guy's eyes, but they usually wait for a guy to make the first move. Many times a girl will go to a club without money and look for someone to buy her drinks.
It's the guys that are confident, generous, and playful that end up with women :) Being a good dancer helps also.
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