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writes:How many times does a woman orgasm on average in the time it takes for the guy to climax? Me and my girlfriend are going to have sex, and i want to make sure she gets satisfied. I have a lot of stamina, i just want to make her happy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2010): Everyone is different, no one can give you a perfect answer. Ask you're girlfriend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2010): Im sorry to say so but you're already heading the completely wrong way! Back up and forget all you think you know and listen very carefully...How many times do women climax in the time it takes for a guy to climax? Zero times. How many times do a guy climax before a woman climaxes: Id say a roughly 4 times. Second part: your stamina has absolutely NOTHING to do with your womans orgasms. Most women DO NOT climax from vaginal sex. They climax when you stimulate their clitoris, that means you have to either giver her oral or use a vibrator on her. Is it your womans first time? I heavily advise you then to NOT keep it going for more than 10 minutes or LESS unless she's comfortable with it, because most likely it will only hurt for her. If you want to satisfy her, give her oral sex until she gets an orgasm first. Take care of her before you take care of yourself. And just so you know, it takes time and practice, a lot of practice, to make a woman climax.
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reader, fishdish  +, writes (20 February 2010):
 if you're doing things right (mostly through manual/oral stimulation) it should take her around 10-20 minutes, but it'll probably take you 5-10 through sex, so it's pretty common that guys let the girls come first and then have sex, that way she's lubricated naturally and guys don't have to worry about lasting long.
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reader, MyDestiny +, writes (20 February 2010):
 Well i wouldn't know anything about your first question, I'm still a virgin. But if It's your guy's first time..take it slow. And as you may know, a woman usually doesn't have an orgasm through penetration, but through foreplay and hands. So do a lot of that. And dude, don't be silly wrap that willy. No glove, no love. Catch my drift..I'm sure you don;t wanna be a baby daddy at 16-17. Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2010): So many boys your age are always concerned at this thought, and the only trick is to relax! at the time she may feel nervous..dont go and google what most men do, because your doing it to her, not anybody else, completely explore her body, if she doesn't seem to enjoy it, try something else, you'll make her happy whatever you do, dont go for the straight sex with her, gently build it up, gently caress her through her underwear, and she'll soon want more!
Women can take quite a while to orgasm, just because she doesn't do it straight away doesnt mean she isnt enjoying it, she will enjoy any attention you pay her, she may not even climax at all, this doesn't mean you aren't doing a good job! good luck!
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