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female
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36-40,
*zpresto
writes:My boyfriend is still talking to his ex that he had proposed to n gotten pregnant. He wants to have all that with me, but he says he has an bond with her and he cant help but find out if she is ok. But im not sure she knows about me. If she knew about me and respect me being his lady and dont want to interfer. I'll b ok with it. But i think his feeling for her may break us up. Am i wrong for thinking she had her chance and it's my turn. what can i do to convice him that we are meant for eachother. it's been 10 years since we was tegether.now i got him back and his ex his coming between us, he says it's me e want what should i do?
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reader, rcn +, writes (21 February 2010):
 You can't convince anyone of anything they don't see or aren't willing to accept. I can understand, where people have history together, a feeling to assure their well being, but their has to be a line drawn, because doing so should not have an affect on your relationship with him.
I think he needs to make up his mind. If his relationship with her is affecting you, it's not your fault, its the manner by which he's holding on to his past. If he's going to be with you, he needs to start treating you as if that is what he wants, with no exception. If not, he's not ready for you, or to give you what you desire out of the relationship, then it'd be time for you to make a change.
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