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anonymous
writes:my so called boyfriend has kept his other woman secret and this went of for almost a year. he swears that they are over but how do i trust that he is telling the truth?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2010): I had something similar happen, they slept together once, and stayed friends, but once I moved in with him I figured out there was something more. when I confronted him he lyed at first the second time I asked he told me the truth, he tried to cut ties with her but she kept bothering him, she is also his ex-wifes bestfriend, I had cought him in a few lies and he has two phones one with me, and the other, when I did some research on cheating men, I was told that if I could ask him for this phone and look in it without a problem (from Him) no problem he's not hiding anything, but when I asked he said ok, but I'm not responsible for what she writes, (my thought BS), well he had not been responding to her and she was very angry, was yelling at him through texts, like his girlfriend, I told my Boyfriend that I had writen her a letter and I had, then she tells him shes on facebook, and came up with an e-mail for him so her boyfriend/husband couldnt read it, mine got upset he doesnt like sneaking, I told him along time ago if there is sneaking there is something wrong with it, (he had to learn the hard way), anyway I wrote her a short note on facebook, I was nice, n polite, I had read this to him so he knew exactly what I said, her response was telling him things that where nothing like what I had said, and so far he has seen the truth of her, real friends (whether U have slept with them or not should not have BIG problems with the one you Love)are not like this. he had told her from the beginning it was only sex, and it has taken both of us almost a year for her to get the hint, she is supposed to get married, but has problems with her man, her problem its not my man. I was quite for along time, then took matters in my own hands, but I let him know everything I was doing, so he saw what she was trying to do. be honest even if no one else is. best of luck.
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