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41-50,
*acktotheback
writes:What is happening ? I and my boyfriend we are together since 2 years , recently I noticed that he became different person , he changed , like he doesn’t want me , if I hug him he said I hate hugging If I want sex , he said I hate sex , if I wanna go out , he says I hate going out , no way If I text him , no answer , if I call him no answer , if I am late or even didn’t come home he would never check where I am ….I talked to him many times, but I gave up I couldn’t get any answer , his response was that I am the same , there is nothing wrong , he has 2 faces , he is snake and too clever There were many doubts on my mind, but I couldn’t investigate whether it were wrong or right What I did is bad way,( not appreciated in healthy relationships) not proud to say it , but I had to , and it was successful , I created a fake account on facebook , I added him as friend and I used fake photos for a girl the type he likes , Later I started chatting with him , what did he said during the chat !!!! I live with my gf , I don’t love her anymore , the love gone away I don’t know how I could dumb her , waiting the right timeShe is annoying me , she is demanded , I cooled down toward her Waiting her to move out , was mistake , this relationship shouldn’t start I asked him , do u like going out , he said yes , just I need good company I asked him do u like hugging , he said I love hugging I asked him do u like sex , he said it’s the most pleasure I asked him do u like exchange text msg with a girl , he said yes I do love it …. But I still remember his words to me ,, I would never break ur heart , I would never leave u I love u to the death ( asshole) I am destroyed now , exhausted , dead …… I back to my mom house I don’t want to back home or see him ? he killed me Didn’t he? He is jerk , he is lier , he is ass Shall I go and talk to him …that I know ur thoughts about me … or what ? leave him Ask for help from his friends ,,
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reader, Duckyhelp  +, writes (25 September 2009):
 I think it is kind of obvious right now. Ignore him like he did to you, go out with friends, show yourself you dont need him. Then you will find a guy who will treat you right.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2009): Sounds like your ex-boyfriend is a spineless sack of crap who cant be bothered to do the decent thing and tell you that he has fallen out of love.
To be honest though you will probably hate me for saying this you are lucky today because you deserve a lot better than this guy.
You do not deserve to be told on facebook that your bf wants to break up with you. If I were you, Id make the decision easy for him, tell him to get lost and cut all contact, but be careful guys like this often dont realise what they had until its gone.
I dont know you, but every woman and man deserves a partner who will be open and honest with them, who will have the guts to tell them what they are feeling especially when it is hard to do so, who will return any love and affection as onestly as they can, and who will be brave enough to say its over when it is over.
When the dust settles, do not blame yourself for any of this, sounds to me like you were a good GF and he didnt deserve you, chin up its hard now but it will get easier and there are lovely guys out there,
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reader, Your friend  +, writes (25 September 2009):
 You have already made up your mind by moving out. His message to you is clear through facebook, how much more suffering do you need to go through before you understand this. Move on, this is the time.
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