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writes:I have been dating my b/f for 6 months now and we haven't had intercourse yet. I told him several times that I am saving myself for marriage and he calls me a priss all of the time. He claims I am sexually pent up. But I take care of his needs either by hand or orally almost every day, so I don't know why he says that. Not only that, but he insists that I finish the job with my mouth each time. Why is it so important to guys that we girls have to swallow their climax?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2009): I find it very hot when my g/f swallows, because to me it is a sign that she is really into me. We already have a teriffic mental connection so what's left is the physical part. When we have intercourse, my g/f insists that I cum inside her. (she is on the pill) She said she likes knowing that a part of me is inside her. So why should it be different if she is giving me a hand job or blow job? I never had to ask or insist that she swallow. She just does and it gets me hot. Plus its great not having to clean up after I climax. I guess I am just lucky. So if you feel that you connect enough with this guy to hang in there as his b/f, then tell him to stop with the priss insults or no more daily (really!?) blow jobs and swallowing. I bet you have great skin.I hope this answer helped.
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (26 September 2009):
 Who the hell is he to call you a priss?
If you save sex for marriage, then that is your personal decision. You have a right to decide when to have sex, and with whom, and it's not your boyfriend's place to judge.
You don't owe him sex! You don't owe him ANYTHING. Not ALL guys are like this. Regarding the ones that are: Avoid them like the swine flu.
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reader, SirenaBlusera +, writes (26 September 2009):
Who the hell is he to call you a priss?
If you save sex for marriage, then that is your personal decision. You have a right to decide when to have sex, and with whom, and it's not your boyfriend's place to judge.
You don't owe him sex! You don't owe him ANYTHING. Not ALL guys are like this. Regarding the ones that are: Avoid them like the swine flu.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2009): Your bf sounds a little rude if he's pressuring you like that and insulting you for saving yourself for marriage. I commend you on waiting and i hope you follow your decision if that's what you truly believe. Now I agree you shouldn't do anything you don't feel comfortable doing, this is supposed to be something nice you do for each other and not a job. You're supposed to like it not dread it. Now the swallowing thing has also been interesting to me too i have a few thoughts i agree that maybe it has to do with submission, or maybe it has to do with primal instinct to mark their territory, and it is a turn on for them and some girls because it's like you can't get enough of them so you let him finish in your mouth and then swallow it down. I've asked my bf many times and he just says "it's hot" so i never get a clear answer from guys either.
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reader, Sweet-thing  +, writes (26 September 2009):
 Why not? Unless his sperm tastes bitter it should not be a big deal. Some men see it as a form of rejection if you don't. Do it once and you may discover that it really doesn't have much flavor at all (depends on his diet). If it's not enjoyable (and it should be) then don't do it. P.S. I hope he goes down on you as much!
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reader, samurai girl +, writes (26 September 2009):
 Not all men are like this. BTW, you are dealing with a BOY. Clearly this doesn't make you feel good, so why do you do it? He's not the only one out there, honey, and you can find someone who will treat you with respect and not make you feel like a semen receptacle. DON'T DO ANYTHING YOU DON'T FEEL COMFORTABLE, OR WANT TO, DO!
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reader, Illithid +, writes (26 September 2009):
 Wait, women actually swallow? I had come to think that was a myth that existed only in the fantasy world of pornos. Heck, even spitting, even sucking was a non-occurance for me. My last relationship lasted three years, and she let me finish in her mouth 5 times. (I ate her over 100 times.)But in the hypothetical world when girls suck at all, much less let men finish in their lips, I would say it's because it feels good. Penises like to climax in warm, wet holes, by their very design. To get pleasure then get so close you're about to blow, only to pull out and finish in the cold dry air is no fun. (Everything up to that point was fun, sure, but everybody likes to finish strong.)But I'm going to say this plainly: A guy that calls you a priss because you won't have full sex with him while only six months into a relationship in which you're already giving him DAILY (really?!) blowjobs and swallowing for him (seriously?!) isn't good enough for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2009): he seems like a bit of an idiot to methe fact that you are giving him all that stuff already should be enough. most guys would be happy with that and he isnti think its better if you break up with him because it sounds like he only wants you for one thing because hes calling you names when you wont give him sexxx
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reader, Heartbroken in love +, writes (26 September 2009):
well if u just want an unbiased answer. from a physical stand point it is more pleasureable that way. I dnt know if he gives u oral as well but imagin if you were just about to climax and then he stopped doing it? its not quite the same but it is more pleasureable if you dnt stop untill we are done. other than that tho I agree with the others. if you dnt want to swallow his cum then don't. he has a choice wether to be with you or not and if waiting to have sex is important to you just make sure you dnt let him pressure you into anything.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2009): im not sure how many guys insist girls swallow, but its definitly hot... I think it has something to do with submission
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2009): If she does it of her own volition it's rather mind-blowing. It's an incredible thing for someone to do. What's that old joke: the bird of peace is the dove, but bird of true love is the swallow.
Personally it would lose something for me if I had to ask. Insist? He should be shown the door. He obviously has no idea how lucky he is. A few years into our marriage my wife decided I could no longer cum in her mouth. God I miss it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2009): Not every guy is like him. He sounds like an asshole to me.
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reader, mint +, writes (25 September 2009):
 i have no idea, honestli i wuldnt do that either untill i was married, do not let him force you to do anythin yuu dont want to, if it dont feel rite then jus stop
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