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writes:pls help, i'v got involved wit an old flame he is just out of a marriage i am just out of a long relationship. he has said from the start he doesnt want a relationship. he wine's n dine's me,takes me to club's pub's away for weekends treats me like a princess buy's me stuff never lets me spend a penny, then he turn's cold and say's he doest want to get close.so i back off then he arrives again telin me how much he likes me sweep's me off my feet again. we ust had an amazing weekend together he went home tues morning n i havent heard from him since he is so cold. we get on so well when we are together. im starting to have feelings for him. i thinking of calling the whole thing of so i can walk away b4 i get hurt, i just never seem to know where i stand with him he is either red hot or ice cold!!!this has been going on for three months Reply to this Question
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reader, purple_butterfly  +, writes (26 September 2009):
I dont know if this would help. But try to control your emotions for atleast 1-2 weeks to come. And tell him you need time and see his reaction. Keep your distance and take your time. If he really feels for you, he willl try to approach you and make you feel like he needs you.
Or else you know you made the right choice and moved on before you wud get more hurt.
I hope it helped!
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