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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I have been dealing with wach other for 4 years now. I have held the title as his girlfriend for 3 years. Hes 22 and im 21 and he recently mentioned that he was ready yo start a family, I personally dont feel that neither of us are stable enough for a child or children so i went to the doctors to start sum birth control. He seemed alrite with it but our relationship is slowly changing and dosent call me so much throughout the day and we dosent end each call with i love you anymore.the only time he really says it is before we go to sleep at night. His reasons for the changes are that 1 hes trying to get to a place where i feel hes ready to be a father and being able to give me everything i want and need and 2 that we have been 2gether for years and i no that he loves me.Am I being to anal about this or does he want to be with someone else. I really love him and want to be with him forever. We still spend the same amount of time with each other so i dont think hes cheating i just feel like he may be deciding wether or not he wants to be with me. please help!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2009): This may sound wierd but have you tried talking to him and asking him why he is in touch with you less during the day and doesn't say I love you as much? Maybe he feels you don't love him because you aren't ready for a family with him yet. You need to have a serious discussion and be totally honest with each other to get to the bottom of this. Good luck!
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