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Should I admit that I'm bi or keep it a secret from others?

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Question - (25 September 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 28 September 2009)
A male Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hey everyone, im so frustrated. after getting dumped by my girlfriend, i felt relieved cuz things between us werent working out. after the events between us were over with, i didnt feel like being in a relationship anytime then i thought "what if the person i would be with be a guy?". the thing is im curious and i have been for quite awhile. im afraid to admit though, and ill probably be made fun of. i dont know what to do, should i admit that im bi or just keep it a secret from others?

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A female reader, Ybamylloh United Kingdom +, writes (28 September 2009):

i think you shouldent keep it a secret as,bisexuallity isent wrong, and anyone who thinks it is, has got a problem and a half

in the end you are your own person, and if u tell ppl and they dont accpet you then you shouldent accept them cos they aretn worth it.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2009):

With age, you will know that sexual orientation doesn't matter much. If your peer group seems to not accept the difference, then you probably want to keep to yourself. Regardless, be safe. Have fun, while finding yourself.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2009):

there is no need to tell anyone you dont want to. there is no need to tell people who dont need to know. and if people who are meant to be your friends will tease you then dear..are they really your friends?

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A male reader, Matthew 79 Australia +, writes (25 September 2009):

I can't see the point in telling people your bi.But on the other hand if you choose to you may be surprised at how many of your male friends are bi too. You might have to fight them off you. There doesn't seem to be any stigma attached to being bi where i'm from infact all the guys i know think it's cool if your bi so upto you if you want to tell people you like it both way's.

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A female reader, obsticalfree United States +, writes (25 September 2009):

I don't think you should go public with this until you know you are for sure yourself. You are speaking of a general interest but it seems very much that you haven't been involved in an actual same sex relationship have you?

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