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I'm afraid to commit to anything intense right now but I don't want to lose her!

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Question - (25 September 2009) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A male Canada age 30-35, *ordan91 writes:

I fell in love with a girl last year, and it was really exciting. but she had a boyfriend. she told me she felt the same way but couldn't do anything about it. it went pretty good and pretty bad during that time and my heart breaking on and off. after a while, i fell in love with someone else, and her and her boyfriend broke up. a few months later, me and my girlfriend broke up and she was there for me but i was uncomforable with that because i was heartbroken by my breakup. i had negative feelings toward this girl for quite sometime, now i'm starting to feel positive feelings toward her, but i'm unsure if i should go into a relationship with her because i've been burned by her in the past. there also doesn't seem to be the same exciting spark as before, but we've become incredibly close during the past few months. i have pretty strong feelings for her, but in a love sort of way. i'm confused because i think i'm in love with her, and i could marry her but i'm only 18 and i don't want to commit to something that intense right now.. but i'm also scared to lose her. any advice?

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