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writes:Hey! Im sorry for the length of this but i really need some help for my own benefit. I met someone must be two years ago now and liked him for a year and a half.I've never ever wanted a bf, yea ive liked someone but never thought anymore of it because im happy the way i am. Except him and the main reason he was different is because we are so a like and he really seemed to show he wanted me. He used to stare at me n look at me loads i used to catch him doing it so much and it was just the way he acted around me however it was abit confusing because one minute he would act nervous as if he couldnt talk to me/didnt know what to say and others he was find with me. There one was downside, people used to tease us and they didnt like us being friends which caused problems and so we barely spoke to each other, however out of college away from everyone else we werent to bad, the way he was still varied everytime but overall he was better with me, until the rest of our group started saying stuff about us seeing each other out of college. He also liked this other girl in the group and she was flirty as hell with him and the others had no problem with that and he did ask her out, however she hurt him and they never actually went out together so thats over, however althroughout that happening he still used to stare at me and it was obvious to me and some of our friends he still had feels for me(well we think), they always thought it and seen the way he acts around me. Thing is hes always said he doesnt want a relationship and wants to stay single...i respect that please dont get me wrong, we are friends and im glad of that! But if he doesnt want a relationsip why act this way with me, he still does though! We went out afew time with a mate of ours and he was fighting with me(nicely) and stuff. Hes also got one of his friends involved, shes a lovely girl and ive recently found out she was trying to get us together so what he told her i dont know but hes acting like hes seriously confused as to what he wants! I just dont understand it like we had those great night outs then went out with some other friends and he was like he was before, totally quiet with me and everything and he still does that thing that he did moths ago where when we meet up he says hey to everyone but just looks at me nd waits for a reaction!! I dont understand. Another thing is people seem to kep asking me about him like someone i saw a while back from college as if they hve expected us to be toegther by now...i just dont understand.Anyone whos anyone that knows us would say he likes me except for one thing. MEM normally start conversations and are te ons to do the taling and mke the effort. I have to be the one to talk to him first on the internet or text him first, he will talk back but he really doesnt say much. He not exactlly confident but i wouldnt call him shy either, he will make an effort with everyone except me! I just dont get it. Its not that he cant do it because he can he sent me a message the other day saying good luck with something i was doig and he has text me before after a night out and been talking to me. I know he doesnt want a relationship with anyone atm an please dont get me wrong an tell me to forget him because i love him and i respect him for that! I would just like to know whats going on because i miss him all the time because i dont understand why he doesnt act the same wit me as other people. Please if you could give me any advice i would be greatful! P.S : he is aware that i like him but he knows i will never ever think of our friendship as anything else. I would say he doesnt like me back but its been made so obvious! Sometimes more than others it like trial or error and it also depends who we are with, the majority of it happned some time ago but it still happens now!
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reader, mint +, writes (25 September 2009):
 well....you can either jus deal with the way he is around you or yuu can go up to him and ask him whats goin on, i understand that you dont want to ruin your friendship buh it seems as if this is realli annoying yuu and yuu need to get sum closure on this so the best thing to do is to get him alone and talk to him.
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reader, princessjasmine  +, writes (25 September 2009):
u needa move on, u dont need that in ur life!
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