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writes:I babysit a couple's child. His wife is expecting a baby in the new year. The husband asks me out to lunch when he picks up his child. Is this inappropriate? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2009): of course it is inappropriate, you know it as well. first an innocent lunch date and then some nooky for the child minder??? the question is- will the child minder reciprocate. and i bet the wife doesn't know about this seemingly innocent invitation.
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reader, betrayedm  +, writes (26 September 2009):
of course! he should have lunch with his wife not you or they can both have lunch with you. why invite u alone? that's how affairs start
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (26 September 2009):
 It depends... Is his wife aware of this?
If he's sneaking around then it's not a good sign.
If his wife knows about it, then he's probably trying to be friendly, or trying to get to know you better.
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reader, boo22  +, writes (26 September 2009):
 Hi, be very wary. I wouldn't be surprised if he fancies his chances with you. Why would he want to take you to lunch? I'd be suspicious.
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reader, Jayney Y  +, writes (25 September 2009):
 No, not at all. If he was inviting you 'round to their house for lunch and his wife was going to be there, different story. Baby-sitting doesn't involve husband-minding as well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2009): No, I wouldn't think it would be inappropriate. He probably just wants to get to know the person that will be taking care of his children.
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