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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:OK, me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months. I really love him and we have a good sex life.But hes so immature at times. and the problem I face now is nearly losing him.Today he had an argument with my best friend, my best friend ended up walking out crying. Yet my Boyfriend had a go at me for not supporting him. Hes trying to tear me between my best friend and him which just isn't fair. he said that i should have stood up for him with the whole argument thing, but it wasnt my argument and even tho she was in the wrong i didnt need to say anything coz he was handling it fine. but then he started shouting and i didnt agree with that so rather than telling him to stop, i thought about how he'd feel and stayed quiet. and he didn't like the face i didn't hug him once my best friend went off so i was still not supporting him..... apparently. He also says i never show him affection, which is out of nowhere. AS if hes going on a rant?I dont wanna lose him but i havent really done anything that wrong. yet im the one having to beg for forgiveness :S is screwd up.If i stand up to him and tell him hes being stupid i will probably loose him. Yet because i'm not doing that i have to sit back and do things like beg for forgiveness. What can I do? or any advice at all will help! Thanks!
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reader, girl from bristol +, writes (24 January 2010):
hi what a idiot if it was his argument then you dont have to defend him if he is handling it fine himself, its not fair to make you choose to defend your friend or him he does not deserve u he should be apologizing to u not the other way i would tell him he was wrong to treat you like that if he dumps you then he is a loser and its his loss
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