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Even though he's been going behind my back, I don't want to leave him!

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Question - (25 September 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 25 September 2009)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

My husband had a realtionship with another female for years. I was with him first but it started before we were married. Then We all started having threesomes together. I did not know that they were doing it behind my back. I just recently found out that this has been going on becuase now they have two children together. The first one I thought it was becuase of threesomes but then I put a stop to the threesomes becuause I was very uncomfortable about her having a baby since I have not had any of his kids. Then she got pregnant again. Now we moved from the state and we are trying to work on our marriage but it is very hard. We love each other and he wants to make it work and he has no feelings for the other women becuase to him it was just sex. But I miss having threesomes and then again I can't get over him having kids. I don't know where to go with this? any suggestions. I don't want to leave him.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2009):

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He also tells me that he has no feelings for her he just wants to be there for his kids and for her and I to try to get along for the children. I just can't get over the fact that she loves him and still wants to be with him. Although she does not that he will not leave me but How Do I manage and move on with my husband by my side.

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