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How can I help him without giving in?

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Question - (25 September 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 25 September 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *eo3 writes:

so i just broke up with my boyfriend about about a week ago. i did it because i dont think im ready for the kind of relationship we were in, plus i just graduated hs and really want to figure everything out which i couldnt have done if i was with him. but after some talking we've decided to remain friends. but as a result of the break up, hes decided not to go to the school he was going to, leave fl (where we were living), and go back home to his parents who are about ready to kick him out b/c they paid all this money to the school that he decided not to go to because of the break up. he says his life is really messed up now and he has to see a therapist and is thinking about killing himself. he says he doesnt blame me, but i know he does, none of this would have happened if i wouldnt have left him. i feel awful, im worried about him and i keep having these dreams that bad things are happening to him. is there any way i can help him feel better and get back on his feet without getting back together with him?

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A male reader, thebeardedguy India +, writes (25 September 2009):

relax. time flys really fast. dont bother yourself now. i am sure nothing will happen. he is old enough to care of himself. he is reacting like this because he is feeling bad about it and instead of telling it bluntly on your face, he is behaving like this. but for next time onwards think before..

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