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writes: i have been talking to this guy for about 4years on msn and a really do like him like actually soo much but he lives soo far away and he wants us to be more than friends but i just cant see it working because of the distance and hes away on holiday right now and says that i have to pick him or my boyfriend.i have been with my boyfriend down here for 2months now and he says hes in love with me what should i do? :|
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2009): Why Have You Posted This Twice?
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reader, josephy  +, writes (20 August 2009):
 you already knew the answer girl, when you breathe or let me say sigh for which one you say oh yeah. dear you may never have a chance with the Msn's guy as you said so far and moreover A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.
It's better to have a small actual advantage than the chance of a greater one.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2009): Well, what do you want? How much do you feel for your boyfriend? At your age, I have to say the chances of a LDR working are VERY minimal, and your parents probably WON'T approve of it. Plus, if he's giving you ultimatums when he hasn't even met you, what's he gonna be like in person, if you did finish your boyfriend for him?. I say stay with your boyfriend, and if necessary cut contact with this internet guy.
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reader, Original shiraz!  +, writes (20 August 2009):
You say the 'guy youve been talking to on msn,' that gives the impression that you dont know him in person, if that is the case then there shouldnt even be a choice to make.
The fact that hes making you choose shows how genuine he is, your happy with your current bf he sees that yet hes still wedging his way in, thats hardly showing consideration for you and your feelings, why would you want to be with a guy like that? let alone give a genuine up for him.
Stick with what you know, long distance can work but only if your both in it to the same extent and the fact that you question it shows your an honest person who has feelings toward another yet is feeling pressured and uncomfortable in situations you should be able to control.
Find yourself again, dont let somebody change all thats good in your life.
Its such a risk to take and one you shouldnt be having to.
Stay with your bf and tell the other guy you want to remain friends and dont want to wruin that, tell him your happy but you want his friendship, if he carries on then you know hes not as genuine as he originally made out.
Best of luck
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reader, a spades a spade +, writes (20 August 2009):
HiyaI think maybe the boy who lives far away is just a little jealous.Reassure him that you still want to be his friend, and because he is so far away thats all you guys can really be just now. I'm sure he'll appreciate that, especially since he likes you so much!
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reader, Six_Floors_Left  +, writes (20 August 2009):
 I can tell you right now that unless this guy moves closer to you the relationship is not going to work out at all. If you like your boyfriend then you should stay with him. Dont let this guy pressure you into chosing between him or your boyfriend. If you dont want to be with your boyfriend then dont but you shouldnt leave him for a hopeless relationship. Keep me posted!-SFL
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reader, xAx +, writes (20 August 2009):
 I don't think your long distance relationship shall work, but if you don't think the feeling is mutual with your boyfriend, then you shouldn't stay with him.Maybe you should continue being friends with this msn person til you are of age to meet.Hope this helps X
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reader, softtouchmale2003 +, writes (20 August 2009):
 I'd have to say that unless you want to live your life in virtual reality, the boyfriend wins out and the guy at a distance needs to find someone real, or relocate to finally be with you.
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