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writes: ok,, So i was 13 in the 8th grade, and it was almost the end of the school year... and i started to go out with this boy... and at first i wasnt too sure about the whole thing.. but as we started to hang out and talk,, and get to know each other, i started to actually feel like i made a "good" choicee... but anyways.. we had started going out like at the end of April.... and summer was almost here.. and i was so excited because i knew i would be able to spend more time with him.. but yeah when summer came.. we would hang out everyday almost, he would come to my house sometimes.. and we would just have fun.. but then he had to go out of town to see his family.. and before that we had a talk.. and i was saying how.. things are gunna change oncce we get to highschool and he told me nothing is gunna change so i believed him... so when he came back after a week everything changed.. we stopped talking everyday.. he kindastop calling me.. and i just knew this was gunna happen... i mean we would hang out or go to the movies sometimes.. but that would be it.. and so more and more weeks passed. and we would text exh other (sometimes) but every blue mooon we would talk on the phone.. and so school was around the corner.. and so 1 week passed... and it was time for school.. so the first day of school we had homeroom together,, and we didnt say anything to each other at all..except for when he walked in his desk was right behind mines.. and like swung myhair or sumthin. and then iturned around and look at him. but that was all.. and so after homeroom i didnt see him the rest of the day... so when i got home.. he text me saying things like. " you didnt even speak, and i know i didnt either, but i just wanted to see what u were gunna say wen u saw me" and he text me again saying some other stuff like, i dont think this relationship is gunna work out.. so i text back,, so u wanna break up? and he said "we can be friends i guess, but its just getting worse" and i didnt respond.. i was so hurt.. and so now.. i see him everyday at school, and he acts like he doesnt even know me.. but i know he still cares.. I just want to get back with him, and make things right..so i justed wanted to ask, if theres any chances of me and him getting back together?from what you read...
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reader, xAx +, writes (20 August 2009):
It sounds like he wants you to try. High school is different from your previous school so everything is weird. But soon, you both shall settle down. Give it time. Stay together. Tell him that you want to try and ask him how he feels. This may not be permanent.
Maybe you both should join a school club together - that will give you both more to talk about.
Hope this helps X
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