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writes:Ok well basically I am in love with this girl who is also my age, I have been in love with her for around 3 months going out for 6 months. I was just wondering is it to early to be in love? I personally think i have matured enough to understand what love is and exactly how hard to find true love can be for some people. I believe I have found it with this girl and just wanted some opinions the age to find love if I its to early or if its just right. Reply to this Question
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reader, lily13524 +, writes (20 August 2009):
 you seems pretty in love.
this reminds me of myself
i knew this guy well 2 years [bff]till then we move on into a wonderful relationship
and from the time we told eachother how much we mean to eachother i have been in love sences
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reader, starfairy  +, writes (20 August 2009):
 Yeah defiately :) feelings don't have to be defined, you know how you feel
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reader, EbonyBlossom +, writes (20 August 2009):
 I think it is perfectly possible to be capable of love at this stage. That doesn't mean it is, just that it could be. Hell, I was practically in love with my boyfriendmt boyfriend and I were practically in love while I was still with my ex!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2009): "Love" is a state of mind. It cannot be measured. It can only 'become' over a combination of you, your needs and wants, your connection with the partner and the flow of that connection.
Each person realized that state of mind at vastly differing periods in their lives when they are with a 'loved' one. As I've said elsewhere, too many people put a black and white label on "love", when this frame of mind depends on the individual rather than an universal 'law' that dictates such a thing.
It is 'never' too early. You may however, ask, "Is it too early to get married?" or "Is it too early to consider children?" or "Is it too early to take our relationship to the next level, like sexual intercourse?" - etc.
Some of us 'find' love, right off the bat, just looking at someone - a powerful 'energy' of spiritual and emotional energies that connect two people together through a series of past and present experiences, combined with our environments and moods. Some of us 'find' love over a non-standardized period of 'time', experiencing different facets of ourselves and our partners, tested constantly in varying scenarios, ups and downs and external influences. The few, the rare, 'find' love through in-depth friendships that extend beyond questions and answers. They simply connect like a river is to an ocean, the sun is to life, paint on canvas...
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reader, a spades a spade +, writes (20 August 2009):
of course you're in love! it would go against the laws of nature for a teenager not to be absolutely head over heels with their partner.
its probably not the strongest love you'll ever feel, but its definitely one of the best.
enjoy! i'm so happy for you.
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