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writes:i have 3 questions.first say there is a girl who wants to have sex with me and i want to also, how do we consent i'm 15 male but i want to be ready when the situiaion comes up. second there is this girl i've know since i was 9 and i like her and we've dated but never done anything but lately all i can do i think about her and i can't even get hold of her anymore. is this normal or am i just love sick because i'm a virgin and never even kissed a girl. and how can i get girls to like me and notice me i have a clef lip and palet and i want to be with someone and be loyal but my top lip is biger then my bottom lip and no girl will go out with me. (please help)
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reader, Six_Floors_Left +, writes (20 August 2009):
 1st- just to get your stamina up so you'll last longer. Also it might be a good idea to take care of yourself first (if you know what i mean) so it will last longer. Still it is your first time and 9 times out of 10 its not how you pictured it would be. Its a good idea to set the mood too, maybe light some candles and play some music. Make sure its down low enough so that you can talk to eachother during.
2nd- Reguardless of if its normal or if your just love sick you should really try to get hold of her. Ask around for her phone number or sumpthing. Personaly i think your just love sick but its more likely because of your age then that your a virgin.
3rd- Luckily for you most girl who would be loyal and who are actualy looking for a relationship dont usualy rate a guy on looks. Not a guy that they really want to be with anyway. You have to learn to be confident and learn a few tricks to get a girl to fall for you. If your personality outweighs your looks then girls wont care about your lip. One last tip is the biggest turn-off for a woman is if a man behaves like a wimp she can just walk all over. Women don't want what they can have easily. They want a challenge! Hope this help you some
-SFL
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2009): hey there! im so sorry to here about your situation. as for the first question it doesnt sound like your actually ready if your wanting to be ready when the time comes. do you like this girl? my advice to you would be to do what you feel is naturdal and if it doesnt feel right there is a high chance it isn't. second question, we all have crushes in our childhood and although it can be hard to forget them somethimes it is best they stay in the imagination. sometimes the thought of something is better then the reality. And for your final question, once you fall in love with the right girl who loves you for you it will not matter to her. If that doesnt seem to be an appropriate solution then gaining confidence in yourself will make you alot more attractive to the girls and it will make you feel better too. Good luck!!!
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reader, kayla20  +, writes (20 August 2009):
 you both have to be the legal age to consent to sex otherwise you could get yourself into trouble. you have loads of time for sex.you probably have a crush on this girl but you will move forward also dont worry so much about your appearance when the right girl comes along you'll know and your appearance wont be a problem
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