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36-40,
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writes:In the beginning of relationships, after the initial attraction, I always try really hard to look really good in front of the guy. Like if we go on a date or if we are just hanging out, I always want to look good.. and I hate it! It's like a reflex now. I spend hours fixing, redoing my whole outfit or my makeup or my hair! One time this guy said what could you possibly wear to make me think you look ugly? I thought about it and it took me by surprise that I had no answer for him. I don't know why I get like that but it's very frustrating. I know this behavior is kind of normal- a lot of my girlfriends say they do the same thing in the beginning of a relationship. I just want to know how you girls deal with this and maybe how to stop this behavior! Thanks =) Reply to this Question
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reader, Jolin  +, writes (21 August 2009):
 LOL!i dont think you need to put on lots of make up, girl..hahaha..just use the light and little make up.. guys like that :D cos it won't surprise them when they wake up in the morning, after the love making on last night LOL! :D
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reader, starfairy  +, writes (20 August 2009):
 Pretty much every boyfriend I've had hasn't noticed the difference before and after I take my makeup off...To be honest I don't wear alot anyway. And pretty much all of them have preferred me first thing when I wake up all bed-headed and ruffled than to glammed up...!
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