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writes:Ive been with my fiance for 6months. He's worked with a woman for the last 5years and i was under the impression that they were just good friends.She left his workplace approx 3 months ago.I looked at his text messages last week to find that he'd been texting her and said in one of them "If you were a waitress in your catwoman outfit i'd eat out every night'I haven't mentioned anything to him but have also seen that he's been speaking to her on a regular basis whilst he's at work but never at home. And when ive asked if he's spoken to her he always says no!Is he cheating? or are they just friends?
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reader, Green Hills +, writes (20 August 2009):
 Hi. Your boyfiend may just be flirting with his ex boss but it sounds odd that he always says he hasnt heard from her. Unfortunately that means he is lying to you, so i understand your concerns. Some men enjoy flirting with women, even when they are in relationships. He may be that type but not actually cheating on you. But lying to you isnt a good sign. Maybe you should ask him whats going on with her and ask him to be honest..... this time! If he still lies you may have to explain to him that you read his texts to her and know hes not telling the truth. Good luck.
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reader, kayla20 +, writes (20 August 2009):
 sounds to me like his cheating as he seems to be lying about speaking with her and he isnt talking to her whilst being at home.plus that text catwomen outfit how does he no she has one???in my opinion thats cheating however there are no facts of this but you obviously cant trust him otherwise you wouldnt be reading his text messages and a relationship should be based on trust if you dont share the trust you have nothing.usually when you suspect cheating it is 95% that your suspicions are correct but i was once told without the facts you cant be sure so you really need to think about whether or not you can forget about this and move on
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2009): The answer you are looking for is yes he is take it from a man's point of view if you were cheating on a partner would you call or text when you were with them come to you're senses and leave him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2009): Look talk to him, but be prepared for him to be pissed that you went through his phone. You do not have a right to.
Tell him you suspect that he is more than friends with her, and its not okay for him to be flirting with her. At the end of the day thoughif you dont trust him now then dont marry him.
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