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writes:im a virgin(17yr) and so is my bf and The thing here is ive been with my boyfriend for a month.i met him a yr ago on aug.2008 and he asked me to be his gf so i said yes then after 1 mon and a half i broke up with him because of some personal problems i had. since then we still got together and hanged out and now we are back. after a month he asked me if he can ask an importnant question and says if i would like to have sex with him if im ready. i feel ready but the thing is if it would be to quick after being bf and gf for a month. we do know eachother for a yr but idk if i should. my body does ask for it i can feel it and it does connect with my bf though idk
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (20 August 2009):
 I think you need to tell him how you feel. That you want to have sex with him, but that you feel you want to have known him longer before that happens.
I knew my first BF for close to 9 months before we had sex, and I have no regrets at all for waiting, hard as it could be.
Talk to him and figure out how long you want to wait, if he cares for you he will wait. Let's say you wait 6 months, and he starts to pressure you then you STILL have every right to say no. You will know when you feel totally comfortable and ready to do it.
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