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writes:I am in love with a guy I work with and it is driving me mad! We have been really good friends for a long time now and spend most lunchtimes together. A few months ago after a work night out he kissed me and said he liked me, since then i have really fallen for him but he has a girlfriend so nothing happened for a while and we kind of laughed about the situation.Then a month or so ago we were both at a conference together and kissed again. I told him I couldn't be friends anymore as I was falling in love with him and because he has a girlfriend. He said that he has feelings for me and would like to try having a relationship but he has made a commitment to his girlfriend (they were supposed to move in together to a house he had bought the week after the conference, bad timing!) Anyway things were quiet between us but now we are spending more time together than ever going to each others homes for lunch etc. its like some wierd platonic affair and it is driving me mad. He knows i would never have an affair with him. What should I do?????
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reader, Serenity1  +, writes (5 September 2008):
 ok, it seems to me that there is alot of curiosity and feelings in the air here. well the lunches have went from public to at your houses. that's a clear sign right there that sex is on the way.
take if from me you don't want to get sexually involved with a guy that has a girlfriend, UNLESS you are willing to take the consequences. they may be good or bad. but just prepare yourself.
i'm actually involved with a guy who has a girlfriend and it's not something you want, and to be honest with you if he still follows the move in plans him and his girl have, he's not trying to let go just yet.
hope everything works out in your favor and God bless.
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