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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Theres this guy .we have sex every now and then but i really fancy him. I feel an connection. Im a confident sexy woman who knows her self. He knows shes all these things but he doesnt want 2 show it.if i walked away do u think he would realiyze that he was a fool and want me. Will he ever be mine Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (4 September 2008):
Well you can give it a try but it might not work.
If he just wants you for sex then he may just think of you as a great mate, but not girlfriend material.
Try it and if it doesn't work then you just have to move on.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, PsyCookie  +, writes (4 September 2008):
 I think you will be dissapointed in the end, but you don't lose on trying out, right?
To me, it sounds like he only sees this relationship as purely physical and he's apparently enjoying it.
Have you talked to him about your feelings? You may think that he knows you're a great woman, but you can't just assume. People are not mind readers and he will probably never know you like him unless you tell him.
But we can't predict the future nor read other people's minds. He *may* realize the great person you are and he *may* want you in a relationship, but he also may *not* reaize it and he may *not* want anything further than sex.
If you don't get what you want, a relationship, then just stop having sex with him for all. Why waste your time with this guy anyways? Or unless he pleasures you greatly. Anyways, it will be your decision.
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