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writes:i realy like this girl, and she likes me, but the one problem is that shes one of my mates sisters, im 17 and shes 15, and were pretty certain we could go pretty far, but the her sister is over protective,i guess, and doesnt want her going anywhere near me...so i dont want to lose her or my mate, and theres a good chance ill loose my other mates over it cus theyre close to my mate aswell, but in a way i think its worth it, but in a way i dont think it is, can sum one please help me i havent a clue what to do :S Reply to this Question
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reader, PsyCookie  +, writes (5 September 2008):
 I think you should get to know the girl better, as a friend. You have to make sure of your decision so you won' regret it later.
Also, try to see if your feelings for her are true and real. Try to honestly see that what you have is not simply a crush and ask her if she feels the same way.
I'm telling you this because in the end, when you have made the decision, that you won't regret it, no matter what happens.
And I'm telling you through experience. I was in a similar position as you, with a few differences. He was my close friend's ex and she had not gotten over him. He confessed me he had liked me ever since he saw me (he told me this 6 months after breaking up with her) I've liked him since I set my eyes on him too. I knew if I went out with him she would end our friendship but I couldn't bear the thought of being without him. In the end, I chose him, but it took me 3 days to make the decision. To this day, I'm still with him. I also found out that she had spread a bad rumor around school with someone else. If you hadn't guessed, I'm not sorry for it.
But if you don't think things out, you might end up feeling sorry for your decision. So sort things out and don't make impulsive actions.
Good luck
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reader, babybiy  +, writes (5 September 2008):
 well the chick that you like is old enough to make her own desicions and the sister cant tell you what to do.
go for it! XD
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