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30-35,
anonymous
writes: hi, my boyfriend finished me on my birthday a couple of weeks ago and im still upset. he never really cheated on me but chatted up other girls on the internet. i read his conversations to 3 girls, three of which i know and i cant stand. i was with him for 1 year and 2 days. his excuse was we always argued. i never cheated on him, but i felt i wanted to get him back, but i didnt. i still love me and he tells me he regrets splitting up and he still loves me. i still go and see him but i just want to kiss him and hug him, or him to tell me im beutiful again, it gets me upset, i kissed him the other day but is he just doing this because he wants sex?
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reader, fukthaworld88 +, writes (4 September 2008):
this is how it is girl. i been throught tha same exact shit with my girlfriend. i just turned 20yrs old last month so im guessin were bout tha same age judgin by tha way u talk. i dont know. me and my girl were goin out for two yrs when i was 16 to 18 yrs old. we fought all tha time but we loved each other. we would argue bout tha dumbest shit. one day i was usin her phone some guy texted her bout a back massage that she gave him and was wonderin if she was comin over to do it again. of course i broke up with her once i got to tha bottom line. it was really hard but i broke up with her. i wanted to take her back so bad cuz i was heartbroken. didnt see any hope without her. my life was depressing and miserable for like tha first month then i started goin out with my boyz as a single dude again. i started to have fun and forget bout it. all u have to do is give it time. start goin out by urself or with friends. party! i know it seems like it will neva end but it will. u will probably always love him but u will get over him. he probably does just want pussy. thats what most guys are after. but if ya wanna go back to him do it, but i bet u guys will always argue bout dumb shit. when u find tha one special dude u will know cuz u wont bicker aa tha time. u will both realize how stuipid and wasteful it is to argue bout dumb shit. becuz if its someone u love u will b happy and he wont talk to girls on tha internet who u cant stand outta respect for u. good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2008): I think he is you should just tell him ur not a piece of meat and you don't deserved to be treated that way either you may love him but sometimes you have to overlook that there is other people out there.
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