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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have been dating my boyfriend for nearly a year. We get along great, have a natural sexual chemistry, have similar life goals, and are great friends to each other;pretty much our relationship is perfect except for one big thing: love. I haven't said I love you to him, mainly because he hasn't said it first and I admit that I'm afraid. I've asked him how he feels about me and he always says he cares a lot for me. I asked him how he felt that we weren't saying "i love you" to each other, and he said "at this time, I'm not concerned." My question is, at what time do I become concerned? I am in love with him, and I know I must tell him. But I know he doesn't love me back, so it will be a little painful but I must still tell him how I feel in the interest of being honest. How do I know when I should leave? He told his last girlfriend of many years he loved of her after just four months, but their relationship ended badly. I'm beginning to think I'm not his dream girl, how long should I wait? Am I inpatient?
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