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*arkhairdarkskin
writes:So my girlfriend and I were together for 15mo. and we lived together for 11mo. She broke up with me last month telling me that we are just too different people. She also said that I didn't appreciate her, or support any of her beliefs/values. I feel like this may be true but only because I got too comfortable living together, and neither one of us communicated well to eachother. We still love eachother and I want her back..... We got together and talked last week just to kind of ease the pain, but I can't live without her and want to be with her. I want to change all those negative qualities for her, I would do anything for her! Should I try to hang out every so often and hope we can rekindle, tell her I'm going to change and try to start fresh, or should I just walk away and not talk to her, hope she comes back?
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reader, Shelljade41  +, writes (5 September 2008):
 Ok, the first thing you have to evaluate is the communication problems. Without a good communication any relationship just breaks apart. You should try and think why she feels that you didn't appreciate her and support her, that is very important in any relationship. Both parties must feel understood,appreciated, supported and loved. All of these must be part of that love you say you feel for her. If not, what would your love be based upon? If you are truly willing to work through these issues, just then let her know and see what she has to say.Start communicating well and ask her if she is still interested in going back with you if you started working on those issues. There is a chance she might endure this phase with you, even help you, but there is also a chance she doesn't want to wait until you are ready to truly love her they way she deserves.Blessings to you!!
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