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*naldia
writes:I was in a situation with a boy I had just met.I didn't know much about him and he didn't know much about me.But we did talk on the phone and I was thinking like maybe he did care if he came over to see me.We were inside of my home and we were relaxed.I felt comfortable so we kind of started hugging and stuff.I felt even more comfortable.He was holding me and showing concern.I felt like I had a new boyfriend.Then he just flipped out on me within minutes later.He wanted to leave.He said that it was getting late and he felt like he should go.The next day he told me not to call him anymore and I was thinking why?We were just getting to know each other.So I waited like a week later and called him just to see how it would go.He was being mean to me over the phone but the next time after that I called and he was being nice.I was thinking maybe if I keep trying he would listen or stay.So I was wondering if he likes me or if there is something else going on with him that's making him act this way?I don't know what to think?Please help me.I don't know why he did this? Reply to this Question
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reader, Analdia +, writes (4 September 2008):
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (4 September 2008):
He either has a girlfriend already and is freaking out that he's cheating on her.... or he's just a psycho.
Why bother with someone like this?
There are plenty of non-psycho guys out there who will never be mean on the phone and will be that boyfriend you crave.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, lilgirly  +, writes (4 September 2008):
 you have to face him and ask him why he's acting like that...
don't chase him anymore..let him do the chasing..if he really likes you he wouldn't really mind going after you..and if he shows you that he doesn't care well i don't think he's good for you..
take care byeeeXXX
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