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writes:I have been seeing someone for about 4 months and recently found out that he has been double dating - seeing me part of the week and the other lady the other part. He has shared the same restaurants, jokes, smooth talking lines and everything. He was completely plausible and you would neve have been able to tell. He was caught out when I found a picture of him on line with the other woman. Is this man completely sick. When he was found out, I told him what I thought. The other woman was heart broken and he decided to bleed that it was her he wanted. Had she found out, I have no doubt he would have said the opposite. Then he denied all the things we had said and done together - I think he had forgotten who he had done what with!! Why would someone do something like this. What an animal! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey guys even funnier - he apparently had no original lines of his own...he used all of my humour and silliness and made her laugh with my jokes and humour. She said she thought he was like the male version of her, I thought the same....I guess me and the other girl were feeding off each other through him! How would you spot this again though! I dont think I will trust anyone again...Worse still, I think it might also have been money orientated, we are both working women with our own houses!! I need a good glass of wine.... I seriously hope he gets hurt somewhere along the line. He said, he just wanted to be loved...ahhh!
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (4 September 2008):
 Haha @ he didn't want you anyway! No course he didn't! What a bozo! Sounds like you had instincts telling you he was trouble maybe, and you held back a bit. Ive been there before. Just cant quite fall for them can you. I dont know if something called female intuition exists, but it makes you wonder!
Yes there is such a thing as love addiction.
I feel sorry for the other woman too, cuz you can bet ya life he has spun her a yarn, and she has fallen for it. But the future doesn't look bright for her does it.
Just remember there is absolutely nothing you can do about that though.
C xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOkay guys ... thats all of the things I thought too. If I hadnt have found the photo, I think you're right.. there would have been 2 engagement rings. Thankfully I never committed my heart I was trying to work out if he was genuine or not. The other woman did fall for it big time and I think she is contemplating giving him a chance. He was so plausible, it is worrying. When he was with me, he never let on at all. He even bought us a toothbrush to share which makes me believe he must br very sick. Is it possible that you can be addicted to love? When I found out I called him a male slag and said I was done. He went mad and said I was jealous and he never wanted me. He just didnt know how to say. I think he was just pissed off that I rejected hi for finding out he was a cheat. I feel sorry for the other lady and worried for her. This must be some sort of pathological illness when you can take both girls to the same restaurant every week and ask you to share a toothbrush :-X
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (4 September 2008):
Contact this other girl and tell her what you've found out. This guy is obviously a psycho with serious issues and I am sure he will only replace you so he can continue cheating on her.
Then walk away.
You were very unlucky to have found such a nut job, so you must be owed some luck soon. Buy a lottery ticket.
Haha, if you win, buy a huge porche car and cruise past his house to tell him that you won and if he would have been straight with you, you would have shared it all. Then laugh in his face and drive away.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, lexilou +, writes (4 September 2008):
 Because he can. He got away with it for awhile and will probably do this again and again. Let her have him you are well rid x
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (4 September 2008):
Because they are a playa.
Google playa. Its the main symptom of that illness.
C xxxxx
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