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writes:I hate myself so much most of the time. I am not happy with myself. I feel like a failaure 'cause for the second time that I try a relationship it is not working. I've been crying a lot lately... I don't know what to do... I am depress 'cause my relationship with my ld is not doing good. what do i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (4 September 2008):
Lots and lots of relationships will be rubbish.
That's why you have to get out of them when it is not working.
If you are feeling depressed then get medical help. Or if you can't get that then go out with your girlfriends and get them to cheer you up.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (4 September 2008):
 As an anonymous reader your age is undisclosed, but at any age all of us should remain optimistic in life. Especially if you are young, there is simply way too much future ahead to even think of things like desperation or giving-up. You will experience great joy.
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reader, lotus mama808 +, writes (4 September 2008):
 There is nothing abnormal to the feeling of depression when we experience a failed relationship. It is part of the process of moving on and learning from it. What I'm trying to say is, we all experience the same feelings you do when we break it off with someone we get attached to. Sounds like you are letting it really bother you to a heavier level, but try not to. I'm not sure how old you are or what the circumstances are with this particular failed relationship, but lemmi tell you, I had many, MANY failed relationships before I met my husband....MANY. I'm not proud of it, but because of it, I knew exactly what I wanted in a partner through my experiences. It will always be painful to break up, even if you are the one breaking it off, but it isnt the end of your chances for love. Keep that in mind, and try not to be so hard on yourself. Hope this helps:)
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