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writes:I am confused on what to do, please help!My ex and I broke up 2 years ago, after a very long friendship before the relationship and him wanting me a long time before we went out, I broke it off as he became too clingly and wanted me to be with him all the time.As time has gone on though, I realised how much I miss his company and did I mistake the clinglyness for affection, we remained friends and met up recently...I have very strong feelings for him still...however!He has a new gf now of a year, but he continues to flirt with me...I'm confused if he's just being friendly, having his cake and eating it or wanting more as I want him back...so i'm willing to act on his advances but not why he's with his gf..Please help!
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reader, Charleybabes0811 +, writes (4 September 2008):
You could just tell him how you feel, even if it affects the friendship at first. He may want to be with you but doesnt know how you feel. I think you should tell him, and if he doesnt feel the same just move on.
You need to show him you want him back and that he's important to you. If he knows you are interested there is a good chance that he's scared you'll just finish it like last time.
Hope everything works out.
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