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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I’m happily married and in love with my husband and on Friday I bumped into my Ex on myspace who is now married too, so I thought we’d just have a casual conversation since it’s been more than 12 or 13yrs. Some how a msg, ended up to IMing. We spoke like if nothing had ever happened and we ended up thinking about ea other the whole weekend and kept keeping in touch via IMing. I broke up with him because I lost his baby at 17 and couldn’t handle the relationship. He had asked me to marry him, but I was young and didn’t feel ready for it. We never did fight and we dated for close to 3yrs. We are very diff ppl now, yet have lots in common and many memories. So we spoke on the phone yesterday night for like 3hrs. The 1st part was remembering good times and talking about our current lives, the 2nd part was talking about how hard it was that we lost the baby and regret on not getting married. The 3rd part I don’t know how it ended up about our love making sessions and one thing lead to another and there we were having phone sex! It was AMAZING but I don’t know how I allowed me to go through with it. For some weird reason it just felt natural and normal. As if we had been teenagers again. Then we talked about how we had gone to a tarot card reader as kids and remembering she told us that we would marry, but many years would have to go by first. That has always kept us wondering. I don’t see how since we are both married. I’m happily married and love my husband very much and the guilt is killing me. Should I fess up to him? I feel I have cheated on my husband even though it was over the phone and we are many states apart and won’t be seen ea other anytime soon if at all or ever. Was that tarot reader a phony? Why would make me even do what I did?I can’t face either my husband or Ex. I feel bad for what I’ve done to both men.I have never even considered cheating on my husband ever why was I so weak?I look forward to your answers and advise. Kind regards,-Confused
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2008): If i were you...id stop talking to your ex...it's not fair to your husband...and it seems like only a fantasy
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