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writes:My ex boyfriend who i went out with for around a year, suddenly turned on me. he began to spread not very nice comments. it was as if he did t too make himself loo big infront of his friends. He hit me and also booted me. and tells me that if he ever see's me again he will swing for me. so i spent 2 months staying out of his way. i saw him today, but yet he completely ignored me, its hard when we both have the same friends though. he is nearly 2 years older than me. However seing him today made me just want t cry, i feel as if i carnt let him go. and i really miss m and him what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2008): I'm sorry to hear that you are upset. Listen, i understand that you miss him, you spent a year together. However, absolutely do not even think about going back to a man that has abused you.. They never change, infact they only get worse. he is a jerk, and has self esteem and anger issues which is why men often abuse their girlfriends. They need to hurt someone either with words or hands in order to feel like a superior. They are hardly that!!! They are peices of shit. I know you don't want to hear that you are better off without him. But hun, you are, trust me. You deserve someone who will love and respect you. Any man who puts his hands on you doesn't know shit about love and respect. I've seen lots of domestic violence cases in my line of work, and to see the emotional damage these men have caused the women and children is really sad. Unfortunately some of the women also ended up dead. Watch the news on any given day. How many boyfriend or husbands killed their partner??? You should be thanking your lucky stars you are away from him. You need to move on!!!!!! even if it hurts. You will be okay, I promise. Listen, one more thing.... the next guy you date....please watch out for any red flags.. controlling, insulting, jealousy, all these things should be able to tell you this guy has issues...you need to bail BEFORE you get attached... And just so you know, you should of called the police on that prick and had him arrested for assault and battery!! Don't feel bad, because i'm pretty sure you arn't the 1st girl he has hit or the last. Maybe getting his ass locked up, you might save the next poor girl from being abused. I hope this has helped you, i know it's not what you wanted to hear. I'm sorry, but I don't want to see you end up in some emergency room or worse the cemetery. Good Luck! Big Hug...
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reader, babybiy  +, writes (5 September 2008):
 i think you should foget about him and get a guy that actually likes you and doesnt ignore you.
you deserve better!XD
and if he does really bad stuff to you tell your parents.
find Mr.Right not Mr.Wrong
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2008): let him go girl....you can do better. i kno how you feel on tha missin part but if he's abusin you dont take that
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reader, shortiee  +, writes (5 September 2008):
 aww im so sry that happened. you can do better then him. you can find a guy thats loves you and wont spread rumors and wont take a swing at you! trust me. your better off without him,
whats boot mean?
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