He lies to me constantly...is he cheating on me?

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hi pls help, my head is a mess! iv been with my bf for 2months, he was in a r/ship for 6yrs b4 me, iv had doubts with trust becus he lies to me so much, once i was stoppin at his mates with him n they thought i was asleep n thy were talking about meetin 8girls to get drunk with them, when i "woke up" n asked him where he was going, he said work, he still denys it, hes lied about his job, hes secretive, always turns his phone off wen with me, or doesnt answer it, he never answers the phone to me, he left mine at 11:30pm and i phoned him at 1:30 and he was still in the city center, he said he went McD's but i think he waas meeting some1, his mate paul said hes possessive, he locked his ex in the house, wouldnt let her hav contact with friends, said my bf cheated on him with his gf 5times in school! he said he swears on his kids life hes telling the truth n not 2trust my bf cus he lies n cheats so much.. my bf denys this and says that paul slept with his ex! n thats why they split up! and paul wants to get me into bed.. paul denys this, i dnt no who to believ! my bf recently gave me clamidia, i had a test 2weeks after i got with him n it was clear, i had 1 2weeks ago n it was possitive, he said he got it frm his ex, but i dno.. help!! my head is soo messed up!! do u think my bf is cheatin on me? thnx

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