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writes:I met a guy online. We started as good friends. Then progressed to more than that. He's a very dedicated father so time was an issue but I was ok with that. We texted and talked online alot. In the past 5 months the relationship has gotten more intense. We both enjoyed each other alot. Then he went through a crisis involving the custody of his daughter. He was devasted and so was I. I felt his pain because I care so much. He took some out of town trips. I asked if he was considering moving there. He said very possibly. I was upset. I told him this would make me sad (we were texting). He was touched. I told him I was serious. We continued to discuss the reasons why and I the reasons why he shouldn't. I finally felt that if he was leaving I needed to tell him how I really felt. I told him I loved him. There was a pause. I asked if that made him mad, he said no. I asked if that would run him off, he said no. The talking diminished. I knew I had made a BIG mistake..but I had to tell him in case I never got the chance again. Now we're barly talking and when we do..it's different. I worried and severely hurt. I thought this would be the man I might spend the rest of my life with. He's so hurt he's shutting everyone out of his life. I'm so confused if he's trying to break all ties because he may leave or done with me because I said the "L" word. Not talking to him is killing me but I don't want to kept texting him if he doesn't wasnt to talk to me. I asked him if he wanted me to stop texting and he said "ur ok". What do I do from here.......I'm so confused and hurt and don't want to lose him. Even if he does move he has family here and I would consider a long distance relationship if that's what he would want too. Need help. thanks
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reader, lexilou  +, writes (4 September 2008):
 Have you actually met or has it just been an online relationship?? x
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