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When did you first have a boyfriend/girlfriend - that actually lasted a few months?

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Question - (3 September 2008) 18 Answers - (Newest, 14 September 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Poll:

When was the first time you had a relationship, and what age did you have your first kiss? I'm not talking about a peck on the cheek or peck on the lips type of kiss, I mean a toungue kiss?

And when did you first have a boyfriend/girlfriend - that actually lasted a few months?

Because I'm 16, still single. Never been kissed. So I was just wondering.

: )

Thanks.

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A female reader, Social Moon United Kingdom +, writes (14 September 2008):

Social Moon agony auntI was around 8 when I had my first tongue kiss - it was sloppy, wet and horrible.

And I've never been in a relationship that's ever lasted more than two months, at best. Here's hoping that my latest boyfriend will stick around for a little longer than that.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2008):

Im 19 years old now. I was 16 when i had my first real kiss. It meant nothing. I was 17 when i had my first bf. It lasted 3 weeks. I was devistaed when he broke up with me but it also meant nothing. I was nearly 18 when i had my 2nd bf. It lasted nearly 2 days. Also meant nothing. I was 18 when i lost me viginity to a nobody. I was 18 and 5 months when i met my current bf. Iv never felt or shared anything so special in my life. I have been with him for 7 months and love him more than anything. I would never tell him as of fear of scaring him away so young but i want to spend my life with him. But then again who knows what happens.

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A female reader, miss-innocent Ireland +, writes (4 September 2008):

hey, i was 16 when i had my first kiss which was with the guy that i had my first relationship and only so far and it lasted 13 months and i am now 21 and let me tell you i thought i was so odd and everyone was kissing all round them and they weren't lol be patient it will happen

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A female reader, Tremor Australia +, writes (4 September 2008):

Tremor agony auntI had my first real kiss and relationship at 16. Two years later, we're still going strong.

I wouldn't worry about kissing or dating. Patience is the key. =)

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A female reader, Yargh United States +, writes (4 September 2008):

Yargh agony auntFirst kiss and relationship at 21 (which lasted for maybe 2 1/2 months). First love and first sex partner at 24, who I am still with at 27. Do what you feel is right when you want to, you don't really need to base your actions on the "norm" or what everyone else is doing.

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A male reader, daletom United States +, writes (4 September 2008):

I was 18 when I had my first kiss - we had been boyfriend/girlfriend for a couple of weeks when it happened. We loved each other through that summer, almost 5 months.

I didn't have another girlfriend, and certainly no kissing, until after I graduated from university. We were both 22 when we met; the day we met we had our first date and our first kiss - and it was very much a REAL kiss! (A year plus two weeks after that first meeting we were married (to each other), became each others' first sex partner, and celebrated our 34th anniversary a couple weeks ago.)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2008):

I had my first proper kiss when I was nearly sixteen.

And I had my first boyfriend (he lasted one month and maybe a bit) when I was nearly seventeen.

I've only had one proper serious relationship. It lasted two years and I met him and started seeing him when I was 18.

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A male reader, Your--Mum Aruba +, writes (3 September 2008):

i am in exactly the same boat as you (:

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2008):

i had my first kiss at 14, and my first real relationship at 14 too with a different guy, im now 16 and been with him 2 years and 4 months (: good luckkk findin mister right :) xxx

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A female reader, Fiona xxx United Kingdom +, writes (3 September 2008):

Fiona xxx agony auntAged 18 and it was for 6 months. He was my first, although not the first I kissed etc of course with. Fiona.

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A female reader, Stayc63088 United States +, writes (3 September 2008):

Stayc63088 agony auntMy first real love with anything meaningful was when I was 18. I think when I was 15 I dated a guy that lasted about 2 months and we kissed a lot but it was at 18 when I dated and fell in love and lasted about a year.

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A female reader, Harlequin United Kingdom +, writes (3 September 2008):

First kiss when i was 12 and fist serious relationship when i was 17 which lasted about 5months, i'm 18 now, single and loving it, just enjoy yourself and you'll be sure to meet someone special along the way.

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A female reader, CharmmyKitty United States +, writes (3 September 2008):

CharmmyKitty agony auntI was 17 when I had my first boyfriend as well as first kiss, and that relationship lasted over a year.

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A female reader, placebo_mad United Kingdom +, writes (3 September 2008):

i was 15 when I had my 1st kiss and 16 when i had my first boyfriend. lasted 10 months. after that i get a 3 month itch and it doesnt last long im 10 now haha!

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A female reader, squiggle United Kingdom +, writes (3 September 2008):

I was 16 going on 17 when I had my first kiss, just turned 17 when I lost my virginity and both of those things were to my now ex!! I'm 20 now and with someone else. My first relationship last about three months. Not very long! But since then I've been with the same person.

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A female reader, lexilou United Kingdom +, writes (3 September 2008):

lexilou agony auntFirst kiss 14, first 'steady boyfriend' nearly 15 - lasted 6 months I think. Then I met my first husband at nearly 16 years old and that lasted 17 years.

Dont worry, dont rush it, it will happen!! xx

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A female reader, SugarCookie United States +, writes (3 September 2008):

I had my first kiss when I was 12. I had my first and so far only long relationship when I was 15 that has lasted almost 4 years.

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A female reader, Lilly Rose United Kingdom +, writes (3 September 2008):

Lilly Rose agony auntFirst kiss 14....first proper relationship 18....dont worry luv at 16 i thought i would never meet a guy or anything but one day it just hit me....before you know it your be in a relationship kissing till the cows come home and thats when all the drama starts.

But whatever you do, dont worry about getting a bloke or being kissed as your have plenty of time for that, ENJOY YA YOUTH!

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