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writes:I am a 16 year old student from central India. I am having sex for the last 2 months with a 24 year old married lady who is my neighbour. She is very pretty and looks as if in teens.Her husband 28 is a very rich man most of the days on business tour. My parents are abroad and I am staying with my grandparents. They only ask me to go and keep company for her at night when her husband goes on tour.They are married for two years wihout a child. Also she says that she is not happy with the sex life with her husband who is interested only in his business. She took the initiative and taught me to have sexual intercourse with her and we do it frequently when the opportunity comes. Except for the first time we did, she reaches climax. I do not have the experience other than with this lady but I used to masterbate before.Now she is pregnant and says it is my child and promissed she would not divulge it to any body in her life. Should I worry about it ?Is there any harm in having frequent sex with lady older than me or will it affect my growth and study.Now we are madly in love each other and cannot be separated. Please advise what to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2008): You aren't ready for fatherhood. If you were girl then everyone would condemn her actions, and say you should not have ever been put into this position in the first place. And PLEASE, GET A DNA TEST! I know you trust her, but she might be wrong about dates and memories even if there's no deception on purpose. And if there's nothing to hide, then the test shouldn't be anything to worry about for her. You DO NOT want to spend the prime of your life working to care and pay for a baby with this woman, and then find out it wasn't yours after 15 or 20 years!
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (3 September 2008):
 Don't worry about it affecting your growth or studies, but rather your HEALTH when her husband finds out.
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reader, Aunty Em  +, writes (3 September 2008):
 If you are old enough to have sex, you are old enough to take on the responsibility of what it brings. I.E. a child!
Unfortunately, you are still VERY young. To play your role as a father, it would drastically affect your studies unless the woman you are seeing is willing to take on more of the responsibility (which isn't really fair - nor how it works).
Whatever happens, meaning - if this child is yours, (the woman you are seeing is married thus it could be her husbands! I suggest you take a DNA test just in case, unless you trust this woman completely) you're going to be a father. It's a huge step, but one you must take, and one you must inform your parents of. You'll need a lot of support.
As for the other question, having sex with an older woman will not affect your growth. It will affect it the same as it would if you were sleeping with someone of the same age.
Good Luck.
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