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anonymous
writes:Hello Dear Cupid,I'm in a bit of a dhialemma. I absolutely LOVE this girl, we have SO much in common, but, she likes someone that is basically a 10 year older version of me, and looks a little different, but that's not the point :PShe trusted me with information about this person, and it got to me, because she didn't know i liked her. I found out she really likes him, but due to his age, he can't be with her, and also the older person has a girlfriend already.The information hit me HARD so i talked to him on msn, and spoke WAY out of place, and made a huige mistake, and lied to cover it up afterwards, but making more lies up after she found out as well. There was a couple of weeks when we stayed out of communication, and we got back in touch on msn after that, and we have kinda picked up where we were, but there was always this tension in our conversations. I was going on holiday for a week, and we met up before it, and we acted as if we were togther, not like that but, when i got back, she completely changed, hardly talking to me anymore. I found out the reason was because the person she liked was going on holiday. That settled down.. and i made another big mistake... I asked her out.. she said to me, that she liked this person, which reminded her he was going on holiday, and it's gone PLOP from there.. our conversations are minimalist. We don't have the fun anymore. Can anyone help me in this?I would appreciate it SOO much! Love you all!
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reader, RON_499  +, writes (8 September 2008):
 well since she didnt say anything it probably means that she is thinking about it.now the question is whether you told her over the phone or met her and told her.i personally think that you should have told her face to face,then she would have at least told you that she would think about it and if u did well i guess you should just keep your fingers crossed and hope for the best.if you move on then its okay but if you still feel like you should not give up on her then forget about the awkward feeling and try your best to be the best friend that you can possibly be for her.it will take time and i know that it will be difficult but you gotta try.if that still doesent make her want to be with you you should just be happy that shes happy and move on.best of luck!!!tell me what happens.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI told her how i felt.
But i didn't get a reply from her.
Nothing...
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reader, lilgirly  +, writes (4 September 2008):
 if you don't tell her now about the way you feel then you never will:)and you'll always be torturing yourself about it...and after you tell her how you feel then she will understand why you did what you did....
wish you the best ..... good luck:)
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reader, RON_499 +, writes (4 September 2008):
i guess that u should just tell her that u really love her and that u want to be with her and also tell her that if she won't reciprocate your love then youll be happy just being friends with her but stress on the fact that u love her.next,come out clean about everything and tell her.i am well.....98% sure that she will understand and that is a risk that u will have to take man.best of luck and do tell me if its good news.
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