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writes:my boyfriend is threaten me bad, he is ignoring me the most times he calls me a lot of names, he thinks that I have other lovers, he blames me for the things which his ex did to him(Stabbing, lying)I have never done something to him!but he doesnt want to trust me and then when his ex send him a sms(they have to talk for two years) he was in a bad mood, he get upset with me and started to insult me,I beged him to stop, he told me that if I dont like it to go away,I told him its killing me, he said that he doesnt cares, I asked him what she wrote to him, he told me its not my business, I felt so hurted that I harmed myself, he doesnt cared at all, I love him so much and I need him, but I dont know what to do, why is he doing all that to me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2009): Well I can just imagine something that he was in your place one day and now he is complicated because of the last girl and need help but its not your problem and I think there would be no respect after he said I don't care if you left so if you think that you already made it clear to him that you will leave then just leave if not be very sharp with him and act as you don't care about his feelings with his ex.
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reader, sexseahot  +, writes (3 September 2008):
 He's a selfish jerk! You don't deserve to be treated like this. I used to be in your shoes and used to harm myself, but it don't get you anywhere. You're beating yourself up for how he's treating you. Do you really love your boyfriend or are you afraid of being lonely? I don't understand how you could possibly love someone that treats you like crap and says he don't care about you. He tells you to leave, maybe you should. You WILL find someone better that could make you happy and that will care about you. You don't have to live a life with someone that treats you like that. You are young, don't waste your life with someone like that. You say that you "need" him? Why do you feel this way? What does he do for you to make you "need" him? I hope you smarten up and leave him for a better life. It don't seem it's going to get any better for you if you don't.
Good Luck!!!
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reader, Aunty Em  +, writes (3 September 2008):
 He's doing it to you because he is an evil, bitter and selfish "man". You deserve better. Don't waste your time, nor tears - nor pain! over him. Don't hurt yourself for something that isn't your fault.
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