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writes:I recently went to restaurant for breakfast, and I met a man my age. He came to sit by me, and we talked about our jobs. He gave me his phone number,and paid for my breakfast which I did not know he did. I called him back that evening to thank him for doing this. We began a conversation, and he asked if he could call me, I said, yes. Well, we've talked every night for almost a week. During this time, we both connected, and we both have felt something very special from conversing about our lives, and I know it's a short time, but we both felt something very special. On that same week, he lost one of his best aunts who died. He was involved with the funeral, and he was very sad, and crying. I have not heard from him, and I truly miss him and my heart is hurt. Do you think he will call me back? And, is it possible to feel something so special so soon. This is the first time, I have felt like this for anyone so soon. What do you recommend? Reply to this Question
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reader, lexilou  +, writes (3 September 2008):
 I met my husband one night and he took my phone number. He called me the next day to take me for lunch and i just KNEW something special was happening. He worked away at that time and I went on holiday so it was a few weeks before we met again and I was also seeing someone else. I wasnt sure what to do until we met for the third time and I just knew I couldnt be without him. I phoned the other guy (it was a casual relationship) and told him it was over and my husband immediately jumped in his car and travelled 40 miles when I told him, took me out that night and we have been inseperable from that day. 5 years on he is still my soulmate and I love him dearly.
So go for it!! Allow him a little time for his grief but let him know you are there, maybe a text or call to ask how he is doing and tell him you are thinking about him at this time. Just take it slow and steady x
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reader, SugarCookie +, writes (3 September 2008):
I believe that you can feel something special very soon. I bet that he is just busy with family at the moment due to the family death and that as soon as that calms down he will call again. Or you could call and say I know that you are busy I just wanted to check in and see how you were doing.I think you should just jump in head first and see what happens. The worst that could happen is you would be alone but really how is that different than now. The best that could happen is that you find the person to spend the rest of your life with.
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reader, Velion +, writes (3 September 2008):
Yes I can honestly say that you can feel something very special this soon. My marriage can attest to that.
I do think he will call you back at some time, his heart is just filled with grief for someone that he obviously cares for deeply. I think what would be best is to show how much you care by giving him a call and expressing your concern and lending him a shoulder.
It sounds like something he needs and also it will help to strengthen your new relationship.
One thing is certain, you will always miss if you never take a shot to begin with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2008): well all i can say is that me and my partner started talking on the internet- we fell in love over the internet via chat roms and webcams. We hadnt even met each other and although it was very strange, we both secretly felt a love for each other that neither of us had felt before. Now 3 years of being together, we are now engaged and planning our future. Give him time, perhaps he doesnt want to bring you in to his loss. contact him and tell him that you are there for him, and will be there for him.
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