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*andit
writes:Six years ago I met this guy. We dated for about six months. He seemed emotionally unavailable to me so I pretty much moved on. We have remained friends over the years and kept in contact. We met up a few times over those years as well. He showed up to my house unannounced even one time to see how I was doing. Just last week I saw him and his daughter at the movie theatre. My two children and I sat right behind him and his little girl. He did not see us and I chose not to say anything. I called him the next day to say hi and tell him I saw him and see how he is. He left the lines of communication open and gave me his cell number. Just this past Saturday I had this man in my thoughts real strong so I decided to call him. Today he called me back. I have not returned the voicemail yet and I think I will wait a few days. How can I make this time a time where we can make this a concrete situation and do things differently? I really believe there is a reason he and I keep connecting. Reply to this Question
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reader, randit +, writes (4 September 2008):
randit is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell he did not do anything really. Each and every time we just kind of stopped talking. i am not sure why either, yet nothing bad ever happened. We always parted in peace and never really said "we are parting"
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reader, randit +, writes (3 September 2008):
randit is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYou answered one of my questions and I wanted to give more details. When Manny and I connected after the movie theater time he took me to the same place we had our furst date. He said he knew that he had to change in order for me to give him another chance. he opened up that time more than ever before. Does this help at all. I just wonder why he and I keep connecting. It has been 7 years now since we first met. If he has no interest then why would he keep calling me back or coming to find me after all these years? We are not having sex even!
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