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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi all,I am going out with this guy and am madly in love him and so is he. We are very happy together.We have some common friends. But they are closer to him than i am - they are his best friends. The reason being for me being distant from them is that, we had some tiffs in the past - nothing too serious, but not insignificant either.Now, my b/f expects me to be on good terms with them all and forget the past. He does not force me to do so - but he wants me to be REALLY very friendly with them and get close to them and stuff. I cannot force myself to like someone esp when we've had some problems in the past. Not that i have grudges against them - but i cannot really be as friendly with them as he wants me to be. But I have attempted this intermittently for a very long time (for the 2 yrs that me and my b/f have been going around for) - just so that i can see him happy, but have not managed to completely break the walls of coldness on their side. They are civil with me but i have never felt the warmth i expect from a friend from their end and hence i cannot help feeling distant. What do i do..i just wanna see my b/f happy!
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reader, Racky +, writes (3 September 2008):
 hi chick, have you spoken to your b/f about this. my partner has 1 friend that has neva taken to me i just go out n have a good time if they tlk they tlk if not it there lose your partner shud undersand u makin the effort is there any of his friends u get on wiv if so stay wiv them you can force pple to tlk. just explain to ur b/f u have tried n it on their side. my partner friend isnt really that friendly after 8 yrs n engagement. dnt let if affect ur relationship ur b/f loves u not who u friends wiv. hope this helps chick xx
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