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writes: I enter school tomorrow, and its my 11th grade, yet I can't seem to find friends, any sudggestions, oh I live in LA, people here don't give a s**t. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, xkokox +, writes (3 September 2008):
I start 11th grade on thursday. When I was a freshman I was new in a town where all of the people grew up with eachother. I had no friends almost the first half of the year. I'm a very shy person. Then I joined the anime club, anime was something I was really into, and of course everyone else there was too. So find out what you're most interested in and just be active in some clubs, Talk to people you seem to mesh with and then you can ask to hang out after school. :]
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reader, Jferrari87 +, writes (3 September 2008):
Hey man, the girl above me has it right when she says join a club. Is there any existing club that interests you? If not, think about starting one that interests you, because you never know who shares those same interests man. When I was in high school I moved from Buffalo NY, to Fredericksburg VA and I had the same problem. I played baseball though, and that gave me a solid group of friends to start with. Also I was kind of a class clown type, which can be good but can also get you in trouble (like myself haha). One time that I took advantage of was lunch. What better chance is their to meet kids? You have nothing to do but eat for 30 or 45 minutes! I made it a goal to make conversation with a random person in line everyday, but again thats something I did because of my outgoing and sort of goofy personality. You'll find a moment where you feel comfortable introducing yourself to people. Everyone has a niche in society and you will find yours. Hope that helps man. Keep us posted.
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reader, Mzmercury? +, writes (3 September 2008):
Well try to meet new people. I always find it hard to meet new ppl. But try to find ppl that you van relate to. Or maybe join some sort of club or click. Just be open minded and if someone tries to play u. It's their lost. Just keep trying and im sure u'll find someone you can befriend. U seem cool. Im sure everything will be fine. Update me??
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