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36-40,
anonymous
writes:lyin in bed he would turn down sex,and have a wank lyin beside me,sometimes even look at porn while doing it... and when we do have sex he wants it over quick or gets me to take out the dildo and finish myself.i cant stand that it turns me off and he knows it.i dont mind he does it but its gettin to the stage im barely gettin sex were only 19 and 20 i think thats strange considering he used to be mad for it all the time .what would be the reason for this drastic change?i really cant stand it anymore...
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2008): but i know he loves me,he`s got alot going on for his age he`s got a 1 and a half year old and the mother is always makin trouble so there for he`s stressed alot and he doesnt really get on the best with his own mother...
its just im startin to feel unattractive or maybe that im not good in bed...
were childhood sweethearts and all he talks about is spoiling me and gettin us a big house and getting married and stuff..
i really cant see him cheatin it goes through my mind tho but i feel guilty for thinkin it...
theres nothin in his phone that would sense he`s cheatin at all its all just me and work....
what do i do?im driving myself crazy with all of this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2008): If he's not getting it from you, he's getting it from someone else. Dump him and find a guy who will appreciate you.
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reader, Aunty Em  +, writes (3 September 2008):
 Your partner is being very disrespectful by masturbating in bed, looking at porn - while you're there! As he is very young, there doesn't seem likely a problem that would explain his loss of sex drive due to age, medical etc.
Confront him with it, and ask him. Maybe he isn't happy in the relationship? But too comfortable to go elsewhere.
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