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How do you write erotic fiction with or for your partner?

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Question - (3 September 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 3 September 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 51-59, anonymous writes:

How can you write erotic fiction with/for your partner without it just being a long wish-list of things you'd like to do?

In my case I keep writing about facials (about which I am obsessed). I guess we just need to talk about it more. OK, I have probably answered my own question already, but if anyone has experience to share it would be appreciated.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2008):

Oh and don't hold back - make sure the language you use is as filthy as possible!

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A female reader, Aunty Em United Kingdom +, writes (3 September 2008):

Aunty Em agony auntCreate a character, let he/she explore herself first - prolong it, i mean, drag it out but in a really sensual, tingly way. Introduce a new character. Let them play together. Don't necessarilly make it a wishlist, but explore things through fiction that you and your partner have enjoyed, but make it more intense! Be rude but sensual.

It's a great idea. Re-reading it will be a great foreplay.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2008):

It's just like any other story ... the important thing is to make sure it's exciting and believable and isn't just about you having sex. It has to be in context: for example, you might be at a music festival, you start feeling horny and he ends up giving you oral in someone else's tent ... they come in and it turns out to be the hot lead singer of your favourite band who gets turned on and joins in ... that sort of thing.

Try looking at http://www.scarletmagazine.co.uk/cliterature/

If you're completely stuck for ideas then it might be helpful to read some of these and then make them your own ... or just use these stories with the names of you and your partner.

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