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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:he always hangs out with girls, but is very insistent that they are nothing but friends. we are only friends! i havent really shown any interest (though i am...) in whether or not he's really single. our conversations go something like this:"i'm going to see so-and-so later""cute!""lol she's just a friend. a good friend."(later as i'm signing off)"have fun with your girlpal""she's just a friend!"i don't show any jealousy, if anything i am pretty careful to stay strictly friends. we both have talked about how we aren't interested in relationships since we have both been hurt recently.does the way he voluntarily clarify things like this constantly mean anything? even if he needs to get offline for a little while, he comes back and says what he was doing. like i should be worrying...
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reader, Jovial  +, writes (3 September 2008):
 Hi
I suppose he enjoys the friendship that he wishes you could be more than that, so he feels obliged to tell you everything so that if there is a chance of you getting together you know there is nothing between him and the other girls. I dont think we can really give you a straight answer he is the one who can give it to you straight. did you ever ask him why he feel the need to explain?
Let me ask you this: Why are you asking this question? do you think you might be having some feelings for him? Maybe its time you start looking into the reason why you care to know where he is going, the feeling might be mutual and the two of you might start something goo. just a thought.
Jovial
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reader, Aunty Em  +, writes (3 September 2008):
 Just relax. Older boys, like 18-21 year olds often are just friends with a lot of girls. It's just how things go. Do you have any reason not to trust him?
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