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writes:Hi everyboby,I've got a mess these days,my 4-year-long girl friend want break up with me.she used to love me so.we fall in love so deep,and we planed to study in u.s together in u.s.(we are chinese).everything had been planed. after we graduate,she got a job as a high school teacher,and i still prepare for the english language test TOEFLGRE.now one year passed,i succeed,and got the offer. i ask her to come with me,whether study or take job in us,even just do some housework what ever she like,i can afford us with the support from my family.she denied with the reason that she have got a decent job already and feel insecure if taking my plan.surely we still love each other as before,i am wondering is it because i have not meet her for 6 months that cause her feel lonely and disordered.our background info: we fell in love in 2004 in the 2nd year in college,we come from different citys 1000kilometers away.we managed to read PH.D in u.s.,and I've been doing it till now.but she did a lot "backup" thing such as taking the test of Chinese National Examine for Graduate and finding jobs intervally.till now she gave up the initial dream.I know I can not blame her, i respect her decision,it is her life and choice.but how can i take her back to my life,we love each so
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2008): Awwww your situation seems so sweet and sad. You seem like you really love this girl and maybe she is feeling a little worried about leaving everything behind her to start a new life with you. It is very sad but maybe if you set up a good home and job she will see that you are making a big effort and she might change her mind.
It's a big change but maybe you could stay with her for a year or so and let your love grow a little stronger before you both make such life changing plans.
I hope love wins the day and you work things out.
Good luck x
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