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writes:Hey guys I need some help plllleasee...Well recently I have just got together with a guy after a long open relationship (4 months, it's been great even though we've only been together for a short space of time... when we first got together i found out that i was the other women in his previous relationship with his ex ofcourse i was unaware of this fact... he had been with his partner for 5 years and he cheated on her with me and it was for that reason we didnt get together sooner... he broke up with his ex a month before we fot together again i was unaware of this... due to this im finding it really hard to trust him... he has been completly honest in telling me that he has cheated previously (alot) on her however hasnt slept with any but his ex and me... what makes me doubt is if he can do this to her what makes me any differnt... we keep havin silly little arguments over this.. the worst thing is he still keeps talkin/ communicating with his ex which i dont understand... he still txts and calls her and it annoys me... why does he do this when he clearly knows that she still has feeling for him... we ave talked abt this and now he doesnt even tell me when they talk like he used to coz he knws it annoys me...worst of all recently we were sleepin in bed and we has a little tiff and he said to me god sometimes i wonder if ive made the right decision about getting with u and dumpin her... what the hell help me pllzz untangle this situation.... how do i react to this coz i cnt trust him... how do i knw that hes still not seeing her????help ps soorri its sooo long
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2008): well it seem's as if he might still have feelings for her. & that he's not sure if he really wants to be with you are not. i mean maybe you guy's really need to sit down & talk this through & see rather or not yall are both on the same pg. take a brake if you have to & give yourself sometime to really think about this. i mean b/c in my eye's once a cheater always a cheater. & if he still talking with her & txt-n her then obviously it's something their. & for him 2 say what he said was just disrespectful. & i mean if you dnt trust him then yall just need 2 stop. & take it slow until he prove to you that he is ready 2 be in this rela. with you n he means what he say. b/c if you guy's dnt have trust then yall dnt haVE anything.
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